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First impressions count whether we like it or not.
And how you feel about how you look matters even more because a confident positive attitude will create a positive flow of energy around you.
Imagine two identical yous. You come into a room and there you are. What do you think about your image, your clothes, your general demeanour? Are you delighted with what you see? Do you look comfortable in your skin?
Find three words that describe what you see.
What were your words: comfortable, stylish, approachable, sexy, smart?
If your words weren’t so positive it could be time for a change.
How do you want to feel inside your clothes? Find three words that you would like to be able to use about yourself all the time.
Step 1: The Big Picture
There are many roles we live out: worker, lover, mother, father, sports person, clubber, gardener and we tend to have different clothes to fit each role.
What are your roles? Identify them.
Are there gaps in your wardrobe? Is there anything that’s missing? Do you have an imbalance in your wardrobe? Does your wardrobe reflect your current roles?
Step 2: Subtract
When you go through your wardrobe you can be ruthless – look at each item of clothing? What role does each item belong to?
With each item ask yourself the following questions:
Do I ever wear it?
Does it fit and suit me?
Do I love it?
Does it satisfy my three key words?
If it does not fit these criteria just ask yourself: Why do I still own it? Is it time to throw it out?
Step 3: Add
You’ve gone through and got rid of the items that don’t serve you. You may not have very much left in your wardrobe but what you do have will be the things that reflect who you are.
You are half-way there.
Now its time to add to what you love and build yourself a wardrobe that makes you feel a million dollars.
Create the image that you want for yourself. When you feel good you will look good and ooze with confidence and charisma.
1)What are the gaps in your wardrobe?
2)What would you really love to wear but have never owned
3)What colours and styles suit you?
4)What clothes would really suit your personality and inner style?
Now you can begin to build yourself a style that you feel at ease with. A style that reflects who you are.
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